How often do people describe their goals by explaining all the things they don’t want? Pretend you are a travel agent and I come to your office to book a trip. You ask me where I want to go. I proceed to tell you all the destinations that I have no interest in visiting. While you may get a sense of dislikes or where I have already been, do you know where to book the trip to now? That will require you to ask where I do want to go.
How often are goals really for someone else? Many
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